
How To Tell If Someone Is Attracted To You
5 chapters
- Introduction to Attraction RecognitionThe QuestionDo you know when someone is attracted to you? This is one of the most frequent questions asked.Audience PollOn Twitter, followers were asked if they know when someone is attracted to them. Results showed 53% said true and 47% said false, making it nearly evenly split.Video PurposeThe video presents a couple of signs that reveal if someone is attracted to you.PreviewThree easy things to look out for to determine if someone is attracted to you are presented.
- Physical Proximity and SpaceDefinitionProxemics is the body language term for space between people.The PrincipleWhen we like something or someone, we want to move towards it. We are naturally drawn closer to things we like, whether a delicious cake or an attractive person.Observable Signs• Someone leaning in towards you • Someone reaching out towards you • Standing closer to you • Entering your intimate zone, which is about eighteen inches away from your bodyWhat It MeansPaying attention to how much they come into your intimate zone indicates something positive is happening, even if it is not definitive proof of attraction.
- Physical Touch and BondingThe ScienceHaptics is the term for touch. When we touch someone, we release oxytocin, the bonding chemical that makes us feel warm and connected.The ConnectionOxytocin is the chemical of bonding. That warm, gushy feeling when we really like someone is actually oxytocin coursing through our bloodstream.Touch Examples• Reaching out and shaking hands • Touching your forearm or upper arm • Putting a hand on your shoulder • Giving you a hug, which produces the most oxytocinWhat To CountCount how many times they reach out to cross the touch boundary. Every time they want physical contact, they are trying to produce oxytocin and create a bond with you.
- Eye Contact and Mutual GazingThe MechanismMutual gazing, or both people looking at each other while speaking or listening, is another way to produce oxytocin besides touch.The EffectThe more eye contact you have with someone, the more bonded you feel with them and the more oxytocin you produce.What To Observe• Are they looking straight at you • Are they looking off into space • Are they checking their phone • Are they looking down or to the sideThe SignalDirect eye contact is a signal that they want to have that kind of chemical bond and connection with you.
- Summary and Call to ActionKey TakeawayThere are three really easy things you can look out for to see if someone is attracted to you: proxemics, haptics, and eye contact.The GoalNever miss a mutual crush by being aware of these attraction signs.Engagement Request• Give the video a like • Subscribe to the channel • New videos are released every weekClosingThe creator expresses gratitude for viewer support.





