10 Subtle Signs Someone Feels Attracted To You

10 Subtle Signs Someone Feels Attracted To You

Psych2Go4 min19 mar 2019
12 capitulos
  • Introduction to Attraction Signs(0'010'16)
    Figuring out whether your crush likes you is one of the hardest things to figure out because attraction is usually kept pretty subtle.
    You have to look closely if you want to see the signs that someone likes you.
    The video will cover subtle signs of attraction that you should keep an eye out for.
    Understanding these signs can help you determine if someone is attracted to you.
  • Voice and Tone as Attraction Signals(0'160'47)
    • Women are attracted to deeper voices in men • Men like higher voices in women
    • Fast talkers are seen as more educated • Changing inflection makes you seem more interesting
    Keep an eye out to see if they're responding to your voice with a smile or laugh.
    If they respond positively to your voice, there might be a spark of attraction.
  • Playing Hard to Get(0'471'11)
    Playing hard to get is a big sign of attraction.
    When we're with someone who's playing hard to get, we usually work that much harder to get their attention, making the seduction process much more intense.
    This comes down to availability; appearing to be less available can make people want you even more.
    This behavior is a basic sign of attraction.
  • Open Body Language Indicators(1'111'37)
    When someone uncrosses their legs and arms, they're basically saying they're available.
    This is a basic body language indicator in both men and women, and also applies with same-sex couples.
    • Open, unturned palms • Maintaining eye contact
    Open body language reveals that someone is receptive and available.
  • Mentioning Single Status(1'371'59)
    When someone subtly drops a hint that they're single, it's a great sign of attraction.
    This continues the theme of availability as a huge factor in attraction.
    When someone subtly mentions that they're single, often in a casual way.
    This might be the right time to make a move, as they might be sending out signals of availability as a sign of attraction.
  • Leaning In as a Flirting Sign(1'592'22)
    A 2014 study identified five separate flirting styles, with leaning in being a huge sign of attraction.
    Leaning in on an angle from the hip is a big sign of flirting.
    If your crush is leaning into you after you make them laugh, it could be a major sign of attraction.
    Keep an eye out for this specific body language signal.
  • Sharing Personal Information(2'222'44)
    The more personal information a person reveals, the more interested they are in you.
    A recent study found this pattern when they studied flirting techniques.
    This can still be done in a subtle way, for example by revealing they're dealing with a heartbreaking loss or major setback in a slightly casual way.
    Personal disclosure is an indicator of increased interest in you.
  • Teasing as Flirtation(2'443'15)
    Teasing consists of making fun of another person in a lighthearted way.
    In a study on flirting signs during conversation, teasing was identified as a big part of attraction behavior.
    Many people have probably experienced teasing in their own flirting experiences.
    • Keep teasing lighthearted and fun • Never make fun of someone for things they're insecure about, no matter how much you're crushing on them
  • Pupil Dilation and Eye Contact(3'153'41)
    Eyes are the windows to the soul; if you stare deep enough into your crush's eyes, you might get a clue as to whether they're into you.
    Studies have shown that when people become aroused, their pupils actually dilate.
    Pupil dilation is a pretty good sign of sexual orientation; your eyes will dilate when you look at the gender you are most attracted to.
    Pupil dilation is an involuntary response that reveals genuine attraction.
  • Fidgeting and Object Play(3'414'05)
    When some people get nervous, they fidget by playing with their hair, bracelets, or nails.
    According to a recent study, these same behaviors might be linked with attraction.
    • Playing with buttons on shirts • Playing with zippers and strings • Playing with many other nearby objects
    Researchers found that people who were flirting often found themselves engaging in these fidgeting behaviors.
  • Mirroring Movements and Behavior(4'054'30)
    If you look closely, you might find that your crush seems to be copying your movements and behaviors in a subtle way.
    • Tilting their head to the side in the same way as you • Adopting a similar posture
    Mirroring has been studied quite intensively in psychological research.
    Mirroring is another big sign of attraction because it shows unconscious alignment with you.
  • Closing Thoughts and Engagement(4'304'41)
    Which of these signs do you find interesting and believable?
    Share your own experiences in the comments below.
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