10 Questions To Ask Women On Dates That Will Get Conversation Going

Speed dating events are dull and boring, with repetitive mundane questions that cause participants to tune out by the third person.

Coming up with unique conversation topics is difficult, especially in nerve-racking dating situations when you're attracted to the person.

Women want to keep conversations going just as much as men do, and when they like someone, they want to give solid answers that make the other person like them back.

The video creator was coaching a client named Chris who had failed at three speed dating events due to asking boring, cliché questions like 'Where are you from?'

• He wasn't engaged with his questions • His questions were dull and didn't spark excitement • He was in auto mode, spitting out questions without emotion

Chris was asking boring, orange and exciting but totally cliche questions that didn't trigger any genuine connection.

Chris delivered questions and responses without any emotional attachment, which prevented genuine connection with dates.

The creator created a cheat sheet of interesting, unique questions designed to trigger a woman's attention and create good conversation in a short period of time.

• Which television program would you refuse to give up for a date with me? • What country would you most recommend that I visit, for example after we've broken up and you would prefer me on the other side of the world? • If people were thrown in jail for bad habits, what or who would you be thrown in jail for? • If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be? • When something cool happens in a movie, are you one of those who claps, or one of those who smiles, or one of those who smiles condescendingly at the clappers? • Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you're going to say? Why?

• What would constitute a perfect day for you? • When did you last sing to yourself or to someone else? • What would be your chosen superpower? • Is there something that you've dreamt of doing for a long time? Follow up: Why haven't you done it?

Some questions are cheesy, some are deep, but all are engaging and much better than asking what someone does for a living.

These questions help you get to know the other person and spark conversation, ensuring that regardless of compatibility, she'll think you were interesting.

Once a woman responds to a question, let her know she's been heard by simply repeating back what she said.

Share a little about yourself and what you thought of her response to create genuine two-way connection.

Do not ask another question immediately after she answers. Asking consecutive questions without sharing will suck any spark out of the conversation.

If you follow these instructions and use the cheat sheet wisely, you will have amazing success on dates.