Hug or Handshake? How To Handle Awkward Moments

That awkward moment when someone approaches you and you don't know if they're coming in for a hug, handshake, or no touch at all.

• Western cultures typically use handshakes • European and some South American cultures use cheek kisses • Other cultures have no touch at all

Learning greeting tricks to avoid awkwardness in any situation.

Teach how to read body language cues and avoid awkward greeting confusion.

• Body is bladed or angled with one shoulder towards the person • Only one arm is extended • Look at the shoulders or hands for cues

One hand extended indicates a handshake is coming.

Missing these cues results in a weird side hug.

One hand means a handshake.

• Arms are open • Torso is aligned with yours • Two hands are extended

• Person greets face first by angling their head towards you • One or both hands are out to grasp your arms • Longer embrace and closer distance than handshakes

Cheek kisses involve a longer embrace and close talking before parting.

• Two hands means a hug • Face first means cheeks will be kissed

You control the greeting by signaling what you want before the person approaches.

• Signal a few feet away by putting your hand out • Lean one shoulder towards them • This prompts them to put their hand out in response

• Use the wave if you're sick or don't want to shake hands • Put your hand up before they approach • Give a short wave without moving forward • Say 'nice to see you'

In professional settings, almost always signal for a handshake instead of a hug.

• One hand to shake • Two hands to hug • Wave for no contact

Use these tricks to get the perfect greeting every time.

Check out the book Captivate for more greeting and first impression tips.

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